Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Calgon, take me away...

Oh my god. I have more drama in my life than Young & the Restless, General Hospital and All My Children put together. And I can't even tell you all about it because I promised The Ex that I would be nice and not bash him on here anymore. Not that he deserves my kindness, but...
Thanks to Juan Bodley for the link-up. I think it's kinda funny that he doesn't even know who I am and we grew up in the same town. It's all good though. If you haven't already, check him out. He's hilarious.
My little Indian friend and I have been spending a lot of time together. Bad thing is he is going home (to India) at the end of the month. He is only going home for a 2 week visit, but he is afraid that his parents are going to try to marry him off while he is there. So, we have slowed things down and are trying to keep our distance, at least emotionally, until after he gets back and we see what happens. I told him that he should exert is independence and stand up to them, but evidentially, I don't know much about Indian customs, but I do know that he deeply loves and respects his parents and I can't imagine him being rebellious or dis-respectful. He did share with me that he is the oldest child in him family and that if he goes against their wishes, that would open up the door for the other children in his family to go against their wishes also, and then he would probably be dis-owned. I don't know how the whole thing works, so maybe someone could explain it to me. I would ask him, but I don't want him to think I am a complete idiot. Even though I am...
On the sleeping front...Still not doing it, at least not enough to matter. Have gotten a lot of reading done lately though. I either need to find someone to sleep with every night or I need a new mattress. I think I better start saving my money because I doubt I'm gonna be finding a sleeping partner any time soon!
I think I have succeeded in making Truck Driver a little bit jealous. Evidentially, the "potential relationship" that he was supposed to be getting into either isn't happening anymore or he was feeding me a line of shit to see if he could get a reaction out of me, which I am proud to say, he did not. After he told me that, I stopped calling him on a daily basis and now I only call him every couple of days or so...Unless he calls me first, of course, or unless I have something really important to tell him. He called me on Sunday to see if I wanted to hang out for a bit, so I went to his house, (first time I had been there) for a little while. It was pretty late but since I don't sleep anyhow, it really wasn't a big deal. We hung out together for a while, and surprisingly, didn't do anything but watch TV and talk. Was kind of nice. He did ask me if I was spending the night, which I couldn't do, because of Drama Queen needing to get up for school in the morning. Then I called him Monday because I had something for him but he was too busy for us to get together so I could give it to him. I talked to him and saw him briefly yesterday, but he had his son with him all day, so it was just kind of like "hi, call me later, bye" and then I did talk to him for about 10 minutes last evening. Today, I was in a meeting all day and I didn't call him, or anyone else for that matter. He calls me tonight, at about 9:00 and his first words were "are you too good to call me anymore?" "How come I always have to be the one that calls you?" So, I told him why I didn't call anymore and he acted like he was all hurt and shit, but he'll get over it. He just needs someone to feel sorry for him every now and again...
Anywho, this whole post was pointless, but then again, when do I ever make much sense?? I'm gonna go finish my book...

1 comment:

Unknown said...

If you'd give me some clues I'd probably figure it out by now!!!
:-)
But I have a problem: after I graduated I went right to work in the radio station and all the kids I worked with in there I can't keep them straight either!!! So just freakin' email me and tell me who you are!!!!!!!!!!